When we were kids, it was so easy to fall in love. Vo pehli baar milke acha lagne vala pyar, vo ankho-ankho mei hojane vala pyar, vo lad jhagad k bhi sath rehne vala pyar. We reveled in the warmth of affection, care, and the simplicity of companionship.
Now that we are adults, being encouraged to find that one person in life who has to be your “forever” companion, has become the scariest thing of all. We never thought about the qualities or characteristics we would be fond of or would want in that one person.
In many ways, our generation is the luckiest to have so many options and platforms to experiment and check what suits us well. With all the advantages we have, we are also the ones who are so confused about making that choice, having a person who will be “the one” you want. Swiping left or right has become second nature, fostering a culture of casual connections and fleeting dopamine rushes.
This has made us more ignorant and less sensitive, which be a cool thing for some people but in the long run, we all will be deprived of being connected, or having that one special bond. What we should truly crave for is "a love rooted in sincerity and depth". We must seek out for a partner willing to invest in the relationship, to weather the storms and savor the tranquility together.
Look out for a love that stays, appreciates long silence, and is not monkey minded. Let's relinquish the urge to hop from one fleeting encounter to the next, and instead, hold onto those who are willing to open their hearts and minds. In a world that thrives on instant gratification, let's choose patience, commitment, and the enduring warmth of genuine affection.
Pour all your love and attention this time to make it work.
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